The S.H.A.L.O.M. Workshop (Sustaining Healthy and Long-lasting Marriages) is a marriage education program that prepares couples for a healthy and successful marriage. Since 2007, hundreds of engaged and married couples have attended this innovative workshop and gained understanding and skills that will help support a healthy and fulfilling marriage. 

The goal of the S.H.A.L.O.M. Workshop is to teach engaged and married couples practical tools to achieve and maintain a healthy marriage. The ability to easily and effectively meet each other's emotional needs helps build a strong foundation for a true Bayis Ne'eman B'Yisrael.

Participants cover important topics including:  

  • Increased understanding of and sensitivity towards each other's feelings 

  • Effective communication through a sense of mutual respect 

  • Building confidence in each other and the relationship 

  • Effective and responsible financial management  

Young couples today face more demands than ever before. The typical modern marriage generally involves managing two careers while rearing children. Doing this well requires that spouses have strong communication skills, can resolve conflicts effectively and efficiently, and set goals together. Without a solid foundation to accomplish these tasks, it is easy to be overwhelmed by stress and time pressures.  


Problems can crop up much more easily than most couples realize. Marriage preparation provides the necessary foundation to boost a couple’s capacity to handle these potential difficulties. According to a U.S. Advisory Committee on Marriage, “pre-marital education could help reduce divorces by as much as 30%.”   

The S.H.A.L.O.M. Workshop has been endorsed by prominent rabbonim, as well as mental health professionals. It is conducted either in group or single couple setting, in locations convenient to the NY/NJ area. Arrangements can be made for other locations as well. 

This workshop is not a replacement for traditional Chosson/Kallah classes. It supplements those classes by helping participants to achieve a deeper level of self-knowledge and gain tools with which to build a happy, successful, and long-lasting marriage. 

Register here for our next workshop!

*Note: This workshop has a registration fee. 

The PAIRS Essentials S.H.A.L.O.M. Workshop Edition is based on PAIRS, which is a registered trademark and used under license from the PAIRS Foundation. All rights reserved. For more information, visit www.pairs.com.



Praise for Shalom Workshops

"The workshop reinforces ideal skills that seem intuitive but sometimes are not. I will be better able to handle disagreements if/when they come up. Excellent all around!"

~ F.J.



Who are our Rabbinic and Professional Endorsements?

Harav Reuven Feinstein
Harav Shmuel Kameneztky
Harav Matisyahu Salomon
Harav Herschel Schachter
Dr. David Pelcovitz
Harav Mordechai Willig
Rabbi Dr. Abraham J. Twerski
Rabbi Dr. Tzvi Hersh Weinreb
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What is the S.H.A.L.O.M. Workshop?


The S.H.A.L.O.M. Workshop is an educational program designed for all engaged, newly married and not-so-newly married couples. It is not therapy, but rather an experiential workshop. The goal is for participants to learn productive communication skills, as well as to gain an understanding of relationship dynamics and how to use them effectively with their spouses. 


Why take the workshop?

The SHALOM Workshop gives engaged and married couples practical tools to achieve their relationship potential. Relationships take hard work, and it’s important to have all the tools you can get in order to make the best relationship you can. 



Does the couple come to the workshop together?

Yes. The couple attends and experiences the workshop together. 


Do we (the Chosson and Kallah) both have to register?

No. Only one person from each couple has to register.  Click here to register now!



Is there a fee for the workshop?

Yes, there is a registration fee. When considering all the fees involved in planning a wedding, this small amount is definitely worth it! Remember, a wedding lasts an evening; a marriage lasts a lifetime!



Where and when is the workshop given?

The workshop is offered in various locations accessible to the NY/NJ area.  


Who has taken the workshop?


Since the beginning of S.H.A.L.O.M. Workshop in May 2007, more than 1500 engaged and married couples have participated. They come from all different segments of the Jewish community and range in age from 18-65+. Our participants have been yeshiva and college students, working professionals, and even retirees. 


Who gives the workshops?

The workshops are given by presenters trained by the PAIRS organization to present the S.H.A.L.O.M. Workshop. Each of them have been presenting for several years.  

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